Beside vs. Besides: Position or Addition?
The Simple Rule
- Beside = next to, at the side of (position)
- Besides = in addition to, moreover (addition)
Using Beside
“Beside” refers to physical position or location:
- “Come sit beside me.” ✓
- “The lamp is beside the bed.” ✓
- “She stood beside him at the ceremony.” ✓
Also used in the phrase “beside the point” (meaning irrelevant):
- “That’s beside the point.” ✓
And “beside oneself” (meaning extremely emotional):
- “He was beside himself with worry.” ✓
Using Besides
“Besides” means “in addition to” or “apart from”:
- “Besides the salary, the benefits are excellent.” ✓
- “Who else is coming besides Sarah?” ✓
- “I don’t want to go. Besides, I’m too tired.” ✓
Memory Trick
- Beside = by your side (position)
- Besides = the “s” adds something extra (addition)
Quick Check
- Talking about location or position? → beside
- Talking about adding something or “in addition”? → besides